Tuesday, July 30, 2013
Tuesday Ten - Signs That You Might Be a Volunteeraholic
This week is Vacation Bible School week at our church and I've had a pretty big hand in planning the part for our older kids -3rd, 4th & 5th graders. (Although, there are MANY volunteers who are helping in various ways and they all deserve equal credit and appreciation!) Because of VBS, I've had some conversations via email, phone, and Facebook chat with some friends this week. Each of these ladies are dear friends and fellow volunteers extraordinaire who are, like me, always helping out with something at our churches or our kids' schools. Through these conversations this week, it has become very clear that we may have a problem.
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Hello. My name is David. I am married to a volunteeraholic! Step 1 - admitting you have a problem - complete.
You can now move to step two - saying no. Think this one will be a little more challenging for you though I am not certain why - you have no problem telling me no :) (Love you!)
I am already a blogaholic, so god knows I have my own issues, but seriously those PB & J rolls look too good and you should share the recipe when you can :)
I once heard someone offer this gem of wisdom, and I remind myself of it when I'm tempted to cave and take on too much: "No" is a complete sentence.
I've loved this statement! And I hear you!
PBJ sushi rolls? Awesome.
This is awesome, Lisa! (And my first thought was, I totally want to make those PB&J Sushis! My next thought was- No, I don't.) I am NOT a volunteeraholic, because I work part-time and use that as my desperate excuse to not volunteer. I am most definitely a Feel-Like-A-Slacker-Aholic. For sure.
Ha! Ha! Very funny dear! Love you, too!
I, too, am a blogaholic, Janine! The sushi rolls were good, but so simple I don't know I could even call it a recipe. Just cut the crust off, roll it flat, spread pb & A LITTLE jelly, cut into 3 strips, and roll them up! :-)
"No is a sentence." That is fantastic!! I definitely have to remember that one!
Well, you are certainly not a slacker! And you should try the sushi rolls - only just make a few, not hundreds! ;-)
LOL, are you starting a group? I used to be a School Volunteeraholic. Every time the teachers needed someone to plan a party or bring in something or even get some cookies the kids had made take them home and bake them, they'd call me. One year they were learning about the first Thanksgiving and the teacher actually called and asked me to make a Turkey. And I did.
Thank goodness - I am only kinda a volunteeraholic. I checked off about half so I have room to drop to the bottom of the pack. Bless you for making sushi PBJ rolls - that one was a definite no for me.
I live in the land of volunteers so luckily I don't have this problem but with four kids and all of their schedules and a hubby that travels for work, I don't know that I'd be any help anyway.
Oh, that sounds like me! I'm the one they ask because they know that, most of the time, I'll do it!
I'm really going to try hard this school year to cut back. I'm doing more with my blog now and I just need to stop stressing myself out. I think "kinda" is a good place to be!
That's one reason I need to cut back AnnMarie. My hubs travels a lot for work, too. Last year was the first year all of my girls were in school, so I dove in thinking "I have all this free time" but ended up just stressing myself out~
I just got home from a board meeting for my professional womens group where I have served TWO terms as president. Why you ask? Because the person who was supposed to do it this year abruptly quit before her term and I have this crazy thing called a work ethic that once I commit to something, I see it through. Luckily, I will not be returning for a third term :)
hahahaha GREAT POST! I am a recovering volunteer-holic. Some of my best friends are, too. They are either making quilts of their various T-shirts, or donating them back because we do a thing called the THREE DAY and that organization wants everyone to wear their color-specific shirts the whole time on event, BUT they only give you TWO T-shirts. Most people are repeat volunteers, so they have extra from last year, but newbies are ALWAYS like "WTF?" So we started a donate back to share w/the newbies! Great post.
I am so not a volunteeraholic. I try and get away from most things kid related if I can. I'm around mine almost everyday and they can drive anyone crazy, I can't picture doing it for much more. :) I do feel guilty at times but it soon wears off. :)
That sounds so very familiar! :-)
Thanks Joy! I hope to be "recovering" soon as well!
Ha! For some people it's just not their thing. Then there are those of us who go a bit overboard. I'm hoping to find some middle ground this coming school year!
I used to help a lot when my kids were in elementary school. Somehow I ended up being class mom for my youngest son's class for 4 years straight...not by choice most years. It's funny, some classrooms have a ton of volunteers, and others none. Now that they are older, my volunteering is limited to their sports and photography for teams.
Our VBS starts next week...and I'm in charge! Yikes. I volunteer a lot at our church, and VBS has been my domain for the past 7 years. I even tried to quit once and I couldn't get out of it! But this summer I've been working with someone who hopefully will take my place next year. *crossing fingers*
My biggest problem is that I just cannot say no when people ask me to do something! So yes, I am! Welcome to the MOAM groups! Glad to have you on board!
I honestly used to be, but then Lisa and I co-ran our school's annual car raffle, and it cured me forever! ;)-Ashley
I was the room mom for my middle daughter this past year and got pretty much no help at all. The other 2nd grade classes always had plenty of help! Just the way the ball bounces sometimes I guess~
This was my second year leading. I was hoping to find a co-director but couldn't get anyone to sign up. I have promised myself (and my hubby) that I will not lead again next year!
Thanks for the welcome! I am very excited. I m learning to say no more, but it always makes me feel guilty.
Ha! I think leading Bible school for the past two years has cured me as well!
I am a volunteer, but I definitely do not have trouble saying no. For instance, I will never, ever, ever be the PTA president. Other positions, yes, but I will not be at the top of the chain!
I am learning to say no. I have been asked to join our PTA board fro the last two years and I have continually said no to that one, too!
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