Friday, May 23, 2014

It's a Small World After All! {Ask Away Friday}

This week I'm swapping Ask Away Friday Questions with Tiffany from Mrs. Tee Love Life and Laughter!  I think I first met Tiffany through SITS Sharfest, a Saturday morning Twitter party hosted by the SITS Girls.  Then, she began participating in the Tuesday Ten I host with Rabia and, now, she's even our Tuesday Ten co-host for May!  As I was doing a little research to come up with questions for Tiffany, I also realized that she is a fellow North Carolinian.  It truly is a small world sometimes!



Here are my answers to the questions she asked me!  To see the questions I had for her, head over to her blog~

The South

1. You're southern born and raised. What is you favorite southern quality?
This is a tough one because I've never really known anything else.  I have never lived anywhere other than the South.  Southerners have a reputation for being hospitable and friendly.  I've have generally found that to be true and love that about living here.  Of course, we also have some really good food!  

2. I am city born and raised but a happy southern adoptee. Are there any stereotypes you have/had about us city folk? Have you found them to be true or false?
I think some southerners assume that "city folk" (and northerners in particular) are not as friendly and that they look down on Southerners as being less intelligent "rednecks."  That's not true in my experience, though.  I have met some big city transplants that are super nice and some of my best blogging buddies live in New England.  When I first vlogged, I was worried that others would laugh at my Southern drawl, but several blog friends from around the country said it was "cute" and "endearing."  Nobody made fun of me.  No matter where you are, you will find nice people and not-so-nice people.  It really has very little to to with where  you were raised and much more to do with how you were raised.

3. I love the slower pace of the country and the overall friendliness. Have you ever been to the city and was it a shock to your southern charm?
Yes!  I went to New York City for the first time when I was in college and it was definitely a shock, especially when we got on the subway going in the wrong direction. I have also been lucky enough to travel to Paris.  It was absolutely amazing, but so very different form my usual way of life.  Lastly, I recently went to Las Vegas for the first time.  That was some definite culture shock!  Vegas is "in your face" all the time and I was not a big fan.

Career

4. My Aunt was a Special Needs High School teacher for over a decade and often brought me in as a teen to help. I know it takes a very patient and tender hearted spirit. How did you decide to teach special needs?
It was actually rather accidental.  In college, I majored in child development and took several classes on inclusion and special needs.  However, that was not my intended career focus.  I went to college on a wonderful scholarship that required me to teach in the public school system for a few years upon graduation (or else actually re-pay the scholarship financially.)  Well, there weren't many open positions for preschool teachers in the public school system, but I found one that was for a preschool special needs teacher that would essentially be co-teaching with a classroom PreK teacher.  I interviewed, got the job, and naively thought "I took the classes. I can do this!"  I won't lie, that first year was rough.  By Christmas break, I was about ready to quit.  However  I had a great co-teacher who was also my mentor.  She became (and still is) a wonderful friend.  Through her support and many, many tears,  I got through the tough times and fell in love with my students.  I truly felt called to continue working with special needs children.  I continued in the position for a few more years, eventually moving into my own classroom, until I had my first daughter and became a SAHM.    

SAHM

5. You mention your 'pull your hair out moments' and yes we ALL have them. How do you resist the urge? I escape to the bathroom or a book. 
If I can, I escape to my computer to blog or peruse social media.  If I can't do that, I just try to walk away for a few minutes to my bedroom or maybe the bathroom and take some deep breaths.

6. You're a list maker. Do you make your list mentally, digitally or the old school pen and paper way?
Old school -pen a paper.  I usually have several lists going at a time.  Today, I have a house "to-do" list and a blog "to-do" list.  There's always a list stuck to the desk at my office of the things I need to get done at work on Tuesdays and Thursdays.  I also keep this dry erase board on my refrigerator to write down groceries as I run out of things.  (Helpful Hint:  Put a board like this on your fridge.  When you need to run to the store, just snap a picture with your phone.  Then, you don't have to worry about forgetting your list at home!)  

Random

7. If you could learn any sport instantly what would it be?
Right now, it would be fast pitch softball!  I played softball in high school and actually pitched, but it was slow pitch way back then.  My oldest daughter is playing softball this season.  Her league is the first age when they do kid pitch and she wants to be a pitcher, but it is fast pitch.  It's very different from what I did and I wish I could help her more.  

8. Share your funniest awkward moment. 
The most recent one I can think of happened at one of those school awards ceremonies at my two younger daughters' elementary school.  I was sitting with some other parent friends and we were giggling at the scowl one of their daughters was sporting that day.  She was obviously in a bad mood and the dad was lamenting about how moody his daughter had become recently.  I joked that "maybe it's genetic!" trying to be funny and suggest that he was moody as well.  Only problem??  His daughter is adopted - from China.  Definitely an open mouth/insert foot moment!  Fortunately, he laughed about it and retorted with a joke about me having a "blonde moment."

9. Pick three words for these three letter that describe who you are as a person. T G S :) T - Thoughful; G -Grateful (for all my blessings); S -Smart


10. What's the last song you heard? Did you like it or hate it?
I love music and I often listen to Pandora on my computer while I'm typing a blog post.  As I type this, right this second, I'm listening to "Crash My Party" by Luke Bryan.  I love it and have it on my iPod as well. :-)

MrsTeeLoveLifeLaughter

#AskAwayFriday was created by Penny from Real Housewife of Caroline County as a place for us to connect with other bloggers by asking questions and getting to know each other better!
Meeting other bloggers and making new friends is one of the best parts of this online world and #AskAwayFriday makes it fun and easy!
Be sure to check out all the awesome Ask Away Hostesses!  They are:
Tamara from Tamara Like Camera,
Christy from Uplifting Families,
and
Amber from Bold Fit Mom

35 comments:

Janine Huldie said...

See, I am from NY and went to NYC so often when I was younger that I took it totally for granted. But to be honest, whenever we went on vacation, especially PA or anywhere a bit more rural, I would find it hard to slow down a bit and probably why even to this day I can't truly sit still and have to keep going. Just ingrained in me, I suppose from where I was born and raised :)

Ginnymarie said...

I just found out we have more in common...my Master's degree is in special education! It's been very useful during my years of teaching.

Dana said...

I do love your Southern twang, Lisa. It's a lovely accent! And I have those open foot insert mouth moments frequently - always accidental but still embarrassing!

Lisa @ The Golden Spoons said...

HA! Well, I'm still not a person who can sit still for long, but I know I couldn't keep up with the pace of NYC either!

Lisa @ The Golden Spoons said...

It has definitely come in handy over the years! I even think back to it now as I work in Children's Ministries at our church.

Lisa @ The Golden Spoons said...

Thanks, Dana! Fortunately, I don't have too many of those moments, but when I do I make it a doozy!:-)

Rea Alducente said...

Being a teacher is both rewarding and challenging. I'm sure you were proud of that moment.
NYC, Vegas, and Paris - exactly the same cities I want to visit someday.
And LOL to your awkward moment. :)

Tiffany MrsTee Haywood said...

Oh My to the awkward moment! LOL I once did the dread oh my goodness you look great how far along are you? *she wasn't pregnant!* LOL - I will NEVER do that again I don't care if they are in full on labor right in front of me... :D It was so much fun swapping with you and thanks for the great questions!

Echo (The Mad Mommy) said...

I am stuck in the burbs, but I am definitely a country girl at heart!

NJ @ A Cookie Before Dinner said...

I also love your twang! I can't wait to hear it in real life soon at BlogU! I am a total list maker and list lover too! The world runs so much smoother when I can put everything I need to do on pen and paper!

bloggingastrid said...

I love your comments about being a southerner. I was born in the city (Rotterdam, Netherlands) and also raised in a city and acutally lived in a city until 1 1/2 years ago. It's definitely a culture shock at times even though I live less than 10 miles from a city. Not having a shopping center in my town, or a supermarket even, that's really strange.
It's great you teach special needs students. I didn't know that about you. I'm disabled myself and would love to one day volunteer with special needs children.

Christy Garrett said...

I am going to need a list if my blog keeps growing the way it has over the last few weeks. Guess that is a good problem to have. Great swap.

Michelle Nahom said...

Love your awkward moment! I have inserted my foot a number of times... All joking aside, I have to agree with you on the Northerner / Southerner thing...there are nice people everywhere. I do think people are more aloof in the NE, but I have made plenty of good friends!

Tamara Bowman said...

I love your drawl! I'm from New Jersey and New York and there are thick accents there too, although I don't have one. I remember your first vlog very well! I used to spend summers in North and South Carolina so I have no stereotypes other than to say... LOVE it!
I love making lists and I'm sad to say I recently started doing them on my iPhone Notes app. Although I totally still use Post-its and pens at home.

Beth Ayotte said...

I'm an old school pen and paper list maker myself! I've tried keeping lists electronically and it just doesn't work for me. I only keep a list on an app for things I think of when I don't have pen and paper!
Your awkward moment was hilarious - probably because it was exactly the kind of thing I would do and I was glad someone else does things like that, too! :)
A fellow country music listener! Love Luke Bryan! He's in that group of male country singers I'm loving everything from lately - Luke Bryan, Eric Church, Gilbert Brantley...
Have a fabulous long weekend!

R.F. Dietz said...

YAY FOR PEN AND PAPER LISTS! Long live old school! Seriously- when my husband tells me to "just type it on the note app" I cringe. Huh? How am I going to remember anything if I don't use a pen? I love southern accents and I agree that there are nice/mean people everywhere. That "blonde moment" comment would've bothered the heck out of me. But I guess you had it coming lol So glad to have met you through Tamara! She really is the best.

Lisa @ The Golden Spoons said...

Oh my! Yeah, I was asked that a couple times and vowed that I would never ask anyone else! Definitely fun swapping with you!

Lisa @ The Golden Spoons said...

We lived in the burbs for a while - it has its positives, too.

Lisa @ The Golden Spoons said...

Oh, I have all kinds of lists. Probably too many, in fact. Can't wait to meet you in person at BlogU, too! I'll gig a big "Hi y'all!" so you get the full effect of the twang. :-)

Lisa @ The Golden Spoons said...

There are definitely pros and cons to city life and country life. I hope you get the chance to volunteer some day - you and the children would get a lot from it.

Lisa @ The Golden Spoons said...

Definitely a good problem!! Mine has actually plateaued lately and it's very frustrating.

Lisa @ The Golden Spoons said...

Everywhere you go you can find friendly people and mean people. I guess hospitality is what the South is "known for," but there are plenty of not-so-nice people here too.

Lisa @ The Golden Spoons said...

I use the notes app, too. And, taking an iPhone picture of that refrigerator board has save me oodles of time.

Lisa @ The Golden Spoons said...

Thanks so much!! Hope you have a lovely weekend, too!

Lisa @ The Golden Spoons said...

Tamara is the best and I'm glad to have met you, too! Normally, the blonde moment comment would have gotten under my skin, but, as you said, in that case I deserved it! :-)

Kim@Co-Pilot Mom said...

I live near a medium-sized city, so I get to sample the city regularly without living there. I have been to a big Canadian city - nowhere near as big as NYC - and though I loved to visit, I left thinking I would never want to live there. I like the slower pace of a life outside the city, too.

Lisa @ The Golden Spoons said...

I agree - it's fun to visit larger cities, but I don't think I could live there long term.

Alison said...

I'm an old school paper list maker too! I also have a whiteboard at my desk where I write down things we run out of so I don't forget when we go to the store. Snapping a picture of it is clever!

Stacey Gannett said...

Great pair up ladies! I live in a mid sized city in the midwest, but I have been told, all my life, that I have a funny southern sounding accent...funny thing is, I have never lived anywhere else. I bounce back and forth, but I think that I am slightly more partial to paper and pencil, for most things. I love the dry erase board idea...I never even thought about it. Have a fabulous weekend, Lisa!

Sonya K said...

I like pen and paper too for my to do lists. However, I recently started using the Kroger app for my grocery lists and love it.

MamaRabia said...

I think you are so right about behavior being based more on *how* you were raised than *where* you were raised. I do have a few friends that have similar attitudes from "up north," but they aren't bad characteristics, just different from how I would react.

Lisa @ The Golden Spoons said...

Thanks! That trick saves me from getting to the store and railing I left my list at home. :-)

Lisa @ The Golden Spoons said...

Thanks, Stacey!

Lisa @ The Golden Spoons said...

I do my grocery shopping online, but have never used an app for the list making. Interesting!

Lisa @ The Golden Spoons said...

Yeah, different isn't always bad. I definitely think it's more about the "how."

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